melissa / mayhem

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burning questions?

10 years ago

i was 16.  i tried to have a sweet 16 party.

it was at mambo’s cafe…cuban food…..we had the whole place just for my party.  i was dating my high school boyf, edward (i think…or we started dating soon after that…can’t entirely remember.)

my friend brenda gave me a zippo lighter and a little wooden pipe we named woody.  1st pipe ever!  the summer before is when i’d say i really started to use/enjoy pot.  granted, back then, it was a very rare occasion to smoke.

my best friend (with whom i have since lost touch) was a bit jealous of my friendship with brenda or some bullshit lameness, and got so mad that i was becoming a “druggie” - which i most definitely was not - and made this huge deal at the party.  (she’s an only child in desperate need of attention, so not a bug surprise, really.)

i wore a lavender dress.  my hair was at least to my shoulders.  i was a sophmore in HS.  varsity short flags member.  damned good student.  i could drive and one of the few in my class that could do so.

i had also just returned about 2 weeks earlier from my 3 week stay in Osaka, Japan.  jeezus, it’s been 10 years now.  wow.  i’d love to go back.

i think i was pretty happy then.  i think i’m pretty happy now.